A wise wife listens to God. When you know things your partner doesn't about God and His Word, it's hard to resist 'demonstrating your knowledge.' But it's an art God wants you to master. Here are two Bible principles that will help you to lead, not push, your husband closer to God: (1) The principle of submission. 'Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives' (1Pe 3:1 NIV). Submission to the needs of others is hard on our pride, especially when we know we're scripturally right. The need to be 'right,' however, will sabotage your hopes for your mate's salvation. The words, 'in the same way,' refer to 1 Peter 2:21-25 where Jesus submitted to injustice, to save us. To submit is Christ-like. It's also the best method of getting self out of God's way so God can work on your mate. (2) The principle of silence. '[That] they may be won over without words.' To protect your marriage and save your husband, God exempts you from the role of being His mouthpiece. However sincere, don't 'preach' at him. That includes placing Bibles, spiritual books and CD's where he can't miss them. If you do, he'll tune you out for sure. 'How else will he get the message?' you ask. 'By the behavior of their wives...a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight' (1Pe 3:1-4 NIV). Try it God's way!

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